| we do not see Victoria beckham when she at home screaming out in pain after having the surgery, plus she can afford the best after care... vaginal is better, and you can have an epidural which cuts out most of the pain.. its natural to worry about the pain, but once you give birth its more or less over apart from maybe the after pains as your womb shrinks back.. but with a Cesarean you have to deal with the pain of your major surgery healing and after pains, and you may need help lifting your baby as well. its a personal choice, so make the decision based on whats better for you. good luck |